Edward Thomas James, Jackson, MS
“When I get to heaven
I’m gonna shake God’s hand
Thank Him for more blessings than one man can stand
Then, I’m gonna get a guitar
And start a rock-n- roll band
Check into a swell hotel
Ain’t the afterlife grand.”
(John Prine)
Heaven got a little louder the morning of January 26th as Tommy James
began greeting his family, friends and others who had gone before him
and whose lives had been touched by his exuberance and its ripple
effect. Music was a big part of his life and he often quoted lyrics in
conversations.
“Your mind is on vacation, but your mouth is working overtime.” (Mose
Allison)
“I wish I could have been there for that.” (John Anderson)
“Though I let her down, she still comes around.” (Mickey Newbury)
“…but I think my angels are workin’ overtime. “ (Lainey Wilson)
“So, now if anyone asks, not that they would,
We’ll be down in Mississippi and up to no good.” (Sugarland)
Common one-liners that were often repeated and endeared Tommy to many
were:
How ‘bout it babe? Where did you go to high school?
Heavy duty…
Great hair!
Good friends are just like fine wine. They get better with age.
$100 hamburger
Y’all underestimate me. I’m from Ole Miss.
A heartache today and a headache tonight.
Tommy was born in Natchez Mississippi. He was president of his senior
class in high school, class favorite, extrovert extraordinaire, all SEC
in football, orthopedic surgeon, golfer, woodturner, car mechanic, house
remodeler, hunter, traveler, foodie, musician, social planner, story
teller, landscape architect, welder, chef, Sunday school teacher who
quoted the lyrics from country music, comedian, a man of great faith,
kind but above all else his biggest source of joy was being Booda. Tommy
especially loved the South, Ole Miss football, Antebellum homes, a good
conversation celebrated with food, friends and family, The Chaine des
Rotisseurs, coaching baseball, and bargains.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Tom and Mildred James, his
sister, Mildred Ann Calvert, and his mother and father in-law, June and
Marshal Pearce. He is survived by his wife, Marsha, his two children,
Kristi Winford (John), Greg James (Fiona), his grandchildren, Pearce
Winford, Aiyana James, and Sterling James. He is also survived by his
niece, Stephanie Krpec (Brian), his brother and sister-in-law, Gary and
Debbie Pearce, and his niece and nephew, Kim Norvell (Charles), and Brad
Pearce (Frances).
Tommy was magnetically drawn to people, not to talk about his life, but
because he was curious about the details of their lives, and he never
forgot their history or their names. For Tommy, working a room in any
social setting was a work of art. He was one-of-a-kind and had a big
heart for all of us. When people describe friends, many talk about
Tommy.
Tommy followed his heart into the world, feeling his way forward.
Therefore, he was never lost, in good times and bad. He was
simultaneously sweet but uninhibited. We were all attracted to this
innocence and authenticity. The morning he died, Tommy stopped breathing
but his heart kept beating for another six plus minutes. As his body
embraced death, he let his heart lead the way one last time.
“Lord knows it’s taken a hell of a beating
A little bit of love is all that it’s needing
But it’s good as it is tough
I got a heart like a truck.”
(Lainey Wilson)
I’m done with dialysis. (Sterling James)